My idea bulbs at 6 o’clock in the morning right after I got a
message from Mira asking me to take her at Medan Gopeng. Another reason why it
came across was because I kept thinking about it since about a week. But, I let
them buried in my head. Or maybe perhaps it just came. The ideas won’t follow
you but you need to get up from the bed and grab a laptop soon after your idea
snaps off.
So, first let me remind you before you start to scroll down
more on my entry here. There will be two things that happened to you after you
read this:
- It
might/will change your perception (about men) more specifically.
- Neutral
Neutral means this entry won’t give you any effect. Which I’d
rather let you to be that way.
-Ego, Pride & Dignity-
In life, there are three things that a man should have/must
have/ and really care about even though a woman does not want to take credit on
that (at all) and those are ego, pride and dignity. Correct me if I’m wrong if
those terms are the same but it’s been difficult for me to define those terms
and it would easier to put those nouns in different situations. And then you
judge a man.
There are three situations that happened to me during the two
weeks holidays which I assumed it have a close connection between an ego, pride
and dignity.
Situation 1
“During PBS, my girl friends bought a gift for the school
principle as a token of appreciation for that school. There were five of us.
Three ladies and two men. Even in beginning, I found it unfair but I did not
want to have a quick judgement on those two guys. But then when one my friend
asked for his (one of the guys) help to carry the frame. The frame was quite
big and heavy. I mean, it didn’t really matter if you wanted a lady to carry
that thing. But hey, my friend was asking for help. It was such a shame for him
to refuse. In front of other ladies. You know. A guy? Refuse to help? I was
almost literally screaming in front of him. How could you blindly disclose my
friend’s offered and gave unreasonable reasons? If you wanted to joke around I
totally didn’t mind but when it became serious I quickly grabbed the frame and
took it in the principal office. Without looking at them. I knew I shut them
off. Shocked that much?
But why I felt like I was the only person that embarrassed
for not helping my friend helped to carry that frame. Should those two guys
feel that way?”
Situation 2
“The holiday was over and like usual, I would pull my heavy
luggage and catch a bus. The luggage was so heavy and I always sigh when I have
to pull that heavy thing inside the bus storage. Usually ayah would help me to
put that luggage. That night was different. My brother was looking for a
parking and things came out of nowhere, a guy offered so nicely to help me put
that luggage inside the bus. I was so flattered. But I could see that he was
holding a cigarette in his other hand. And even though I hate a guy who smokes
but that doesn’t make him a serial killer to offer me helping to put a luggage.
I really appreciate that help.”
Situation 3
“I was looking for a parking and it turned out I made a wrong
direction, so I decided to park the car right there was one parking left and I
was never used to park a car like using the gear reverse first. It was
difficult I could barely breathe. I was afraid that I could hit the other cars
right and left. So, while I was adjusting the car, there two guys came across
and looked at me. exchanging glances, one of the guy looked at me and wondered
I parked my car like senget while smiling and he said something about the
adjusting the car. and then I heard he said to just let my steering go straight
and it was already perfect. I just need to reverse it. Worrying I couldn’t do
it he looked back at me and checked behind the car back. Everything went well.
The parking. Thanks to his tiny little help.”
-to be continued-
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