Personality wins the heart (part 2)

So, what’s really educates a man to be polite or more specifically --- a gentleman. Question mark. Seriously, I really wanted to marry a gentleman instead of just--- a man. But how many people would realize that? After that incident, all I could summarize is, that guy
(situation 1) perhaps did not being educate much on how to be more polite to the ladies or maybe not having an enough exposure of being a man. I didn’t entirely blame him. If he had been thought since he was young, well at least he won’t refuse to help. And for the record, it will be cruel enough for a man to refuse a lady’s help. And you would never appear in the A-list of a lady if you reacted that way.

And my good views on him suddenly disappeared. I took personality as a priority to marry a good guy. A very good guy. Of course a lady dying to marry a guy with six packs, hot body and a cute face but those are just bonus or a package. It’s like when you buy a box of cereal and there it a small free gift inside it without you noticing. Like a surprise. The main thing is helpful enough to help her in the future as a wife soon after you get married. At least help her carry the groceries, fixing the plumbing, carry the ladder, painting the wall and there are actually lots of stuffs that really needs a man to do that and I thank Allah for made me came across that. This made me think and Wonder why God made a lady so poise while a man is build with toughness and strong-ness? even the word ‘strong’ is well-defined if you put that on a man.

Wouldn’t it be sad if a lady said to you that you just have a cute face and a hot body other than that, you’re none? A lady wants to marry a man who willing to do anything. And by anything you don’t need to catch a grenade, throw your hand on a blade or jump in front of the train for her. Seriously Bruno Mars? Help carrying the groceries will do.

Just at least be wiser and think twice whenever a lady asks for your help. 

Be a gentleman won’t kill you.

Fin